There is a lot riding on us being able to control our actions and emotions. Its funny how people and the environment we are surrounded, manipulate our state of mind and our well being. A day of yours can be made worse so easily than making it memorable, happy (yup, that plain simple word that sounds so bland and often short-lived).We have heard and probably know about this already, but our minds are so caught up in the world that we even fail to realize it. Like the chocolate addict gulping a bar of rich chocolate during a diet control regimen, we give in to the worldly pleasures. See where that has landed us. Hey! I am a victim too and i fight back every time regardless of what follows later.
What do we do? Its not like we have a button or an app to take care of that yet or do we..? There are programs, regimens that assure to take care of this issue. They even swear to return the remote of our mind’s control to oneself. But not a lot of these programs wanna do it without the aspect of commercialization. For serious decision makers, they enroll and try to pave their own path to recovery. The rest are either stuck or decide not to do anything simply because it’s “cool”, “that’s how it is these days..” blah, blah..
Deal with it however you plan to or life supposedly leads you to. Before making that decision let me share you a simple secret. See if it helps. Use this. Free yourselves from the negativity around. Strengthen that never failing charm in you.
Here is that little secret i want you to hear.
Make wishes, innocent and heart felt ones, simple and profound, stupid and silly. Take charge of this, as it is your world and YOU need to take care of it.You don’t have to tell anyone or even remember it but make an effort to be sincere. Never mind if you cant physically do anything about it. Doesn’t mean I am telling you to do nothing if you have the heart and guts for it. Start your day wishing for a better world, a place where everyone could live without hurt. Keep throwing wishes when you walk on the street, going somewhere, staring from anywhere. Trust me when i tell, it will return to you even a hundred fold.
If you are still thinking about what to wish, start with these.. I wish that small kid and her mother find some great food to eat. I wish the frowning old man would find a reason to smile. Wish the dog doesn’t have to starve today. All these people need to be real while you wish better for them. Smile and interact with babies and small kids if you can without freaking them out. They are great stress-busters and ensure no one can spoil your happy state of mind. If it is still a genuinely sad day, learn to embrace it and move on. That’s the only way forward.
Last but not the least, Never be selfish in your wishes..nor in sharing this if you liked it. I d love to hear about your thoughts and what you have to tell about this. Have a great day.